The Sissy Rules

It's not easy to transform Luke into a sissy... he is not overtly feminine. He prefers stubble or a few whiskers to a clean shave and he is fairly athletic. Since we have been together I have had rules for him. They started simple, with just a couple, but gradually I have given him more and more. The end result, of course, is the sissy I so desire.

Early on in our relationship, I told Luke that in order to be with Me he would have to give Me complete control of his orgasms. This means no cumming, no release whatsoever unless I allow it. Ever the powerful lover, he can usually go for a very long time before he needs to climax, so it didn't impact our sex life much. But through this was I able to keep him on edge, often for weeks at a time. It is when he is on edge that he is most willing to accept the humiliation that comes with being a sissy.

I'm sure as the weeks go on I will write more about how each of these rules evolved, but for the sake of brevity tonight I will simply list them. And yes, in case you are wondering, there are consequences if he breaks the rules.
1. I own his orgasms fully and completely.
2. He may not masturbate unless he asks permission, and must ask as follows: "Because sissies aren't allowed pussy, may I rub my clitty?"
3. He must remain shaved regularly, to include legs, chest and underarms.
4. He is to keep his toenails polished and touch them up as needed.
5. He is to wear panties every day.
6. He is to wear a nightie to bed each night. We have an assortment from which he is free to choose.
7. He must sit down to pee, just like a girl.
8. He must regularly make love to his stuffed bear, rubbing his sissy stick against it.
9. When he makes love to his bear, he must first apply lipstick.
10. His bear is the only sexual outlet he can use without asking permission first, and he must always apply lipstick. Therefore, if I see him wearing lipstick in the morning, I know he will have given in.
11. No orgasms unless completely feminized, in full sissy attire, including wig and makeup.

And of course the biggest rule of all, and the purpose of our blog - absolutely no penetrative sex with me for an entire year! I know my desires are far from traditional, but they excite me to no end. We spend hours discussing everything before implementing it, and we both know how to push each other's buttons. This blog will serve to document our year. Luke, or Buffy, is already on edge and aroused after just a week. I'm excited to see how he will feel a year from now!

Day 1 - Letting Go

Making love together was a bitter sweet moment as Jade writhed in ecstasy to meet my every thrust.  Moans of deep pleasure filled the room as my hips circled about her.  As good as it was, it would be the last time for a year.  It doesn't matter if I'm the greater lover she's ever had or not.  Nor does it matter how good she feels when I fill her so completely.  Jade has a fantasy.  She wants to experience having a sissy.  Not a game.  Not a part time excursion.  He wants the man in her life to submit to being a sissy.  I pride myself on being a good lover.  I think of it as an art to practice.  It may be because of this that she enjoys stripping me of it all the more.  

When Jade approached me with her desires and asked if I would accept being a sissy, it was a daunting proposition.  We didn't enter into it lightly.  We've talked about it a long while which has helped me wrap my brain about it.  She's been sharing these fantasies and masturbating to them for years.  But she's dead set, she doesn't feel that it's a real sissy experience if she opens her legs to me.  So it's not just being a sissy, but giving up sexual pleasure as I know it.  Hence why making love was so bitter sweet.  I take my love to many places no one else have ever been able to take her. I guess I still will be.  It just won't be in the way that I'm accustomed to.  The one where I'm in charge and feel the power of being the one to take her.  For 365 days I will wait to feel this way with her again and make love to her as her man. 

Day One

Have you ever fantasized about something so wickedly devious that you never felt you would have a chance to make it real? Imagine your most perverse fantasy. Now imagine finding a partner who is not only willing but eager to let you explore your deepest fantasies, with few if any limits, despite what his desires may be. This is the life I live.

It is as a result of these desires that we have come to start this blog. My name is Jade. I'm a married woman, with a traditional vanilla life and strong family values. My husband's name is Luke, but on this blog he will only be referred to as Buffy. We have always experimented with power exchange in our relationship.  For instance, I've always had the authority over his orgasms.  But as we explore more, the greater my appetite for the extreme becomes.   I've asked Luke to be my devoted sissy for an entire year.  This blog will serve to document our journey together.

We hope you find it stimulating.  And even if the sissy lifestyle doesn't appeal to you sexually we hope you can appreciate the levels of intimacy we explore and share together.